Each person is born with a purpose—a unique calling planted in the soul by God. In Catholic teaching, this call is known as a vocation, derived from the Latin word vocare, which means “to call.” Far more than a career or a role, a vocation is God’s invitation to each individual to live a life of love, service, and holiness.

At the heart of every vocation is the universal call to holiness. Regardless of one’s path in life—whether married, single, religious, or ordained—every person is called to grow in love of God and neighbor. The Second Vatican Council powerfully affirmed this, stating: “All the faithful of Christ…are called to the fullness of the Christian life and to the perfection of charity” (Lumen Gentium, 40) [1]. This is the common foundation upon which all other vocations are built. From this shared call to holiness flow the particular vocations—specific ways in which a person lives out their response to God’s love. These include marriage, priesthood, religious life, and consecrated single life. Each of these paths offers a distinct witness to the Gospel and contributes to the sanctification of the world.

Sister Deirdre Byrne and Victoria Valent

Vocation and Discipleship

To be a disciple is to follow Christ not only in belief, but in action—in prayer, in sacrifice, in the pursuit of virtue, and in service to others. Discipleship demands attentiveness to the voice of the Good Shepherd and a willingness to go wherever He leads. St. Teresa of Calcutta, who lived out her vocation as a consecrated religious serving the poorest of the poor, once said, “Holiness does not consist in doing extraordinary things. It consists in accepting, with a smile, what Jesus sends us” [2]. Her words remind us that discipleship is often quiet and hidden, shaped in the ordinary moments of everyday life.

One of the most striking examples of vocation and discipleship in Scripture is the call of St. Matthew. In his own Gospel, Matthew recounts the moment Jesus called him: “As Jesus passed on from there, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the customs post. He said to him, ‘Follow me.’ And he got up and followed him.” (Matthew 9:9) [3]. This brief exchange reveals a powerful truth—vocation often begins with a simple invitation and a courageous response. Matthew left behind his livelihood, his comfort, and his former way of life to follow a new path. He did not wait until he had all the answers. He trusted the One who called him. His life changed forever because of that yes.

Responding to God’s Call

This willingness to respond generously to God’s call is echoed in the lives of countless saints. St. John Vianney, patron saint of parish priests, beautifully summarized the vocation to the priesthood, saying, “The priesthood is the love of the heart of Jesus” [4]. In the vocation to marriage, Venerable Fr. Patrick Peyton, known for his promotion of the family Rosary, emphasized the sanctity of spousal love: “The greatest thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother” [5]. Saints in religious life, such as St. Edith Stein (St. Teresa Benedicta of the Cross), who embraced the Carmelite vocation, spoke of the grace found even in suffering: “Let us love the Cross and remember that we are not alone in carrying it. God is with us” [6]. And in the consecrated single life, St. Teresa of Calcutta reminded the world, “God does not call us to be successful, but to be faithful” [2].

Discernment In Practice

Discerning a vocation requires both patience and prayer. It is rarely revealed all at once. God often speaks in the silence, in the gentle stirrings of the heart, in the counsel of others, and through the circumstances of life. For many, clarity comes through consistent prayer, regular reception of the sacraments, and openness to serving others. It can also be helpful to speak with a spiritual director or trusted mentor—someone who can help us interpret the signs of God’s movement in our lives. As St. Francis of Assisi once encouraged, “Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible” [7]. The journey of vocation often begins with small acts of faithfulness that gradually unfold into a life of purpose.

There are several helpful questions to ponder when discerning one’s path: Where do I feel the deepest peace? In what moments do I feel closest to God? What gifts and desires has He placed in my heart? Am I open to His call, even if it leads me in an unexpected direction? What might be keeping me from saying yes? These questions are not always answered easily or quickly, but they are essential in opening one’s heart to God’s plan.

Parents of Victoria Valent

Ultimately, responding to a vocation is not about achieving a perfect life. It is about trusting the One who created you and desires your joy more than you do. It is about saying “yes” to the One who has already said “yes” to you in love. This month offers a grace-filled opportunity to pause and listen again. God is always calling. Sometimes the call is bold, other times it is subtle—but it is always rooted in love. The only question is: Are we listening?

As we reflect on these truths, let us entrust our discernment to God with this prayer:

A Prayer for Vocational Clarity

Lord,
You have created me for a purpose,
a mission that only I can fulfill.
Open my heart to hear Your voice.
Grant me the courage to respond generously,
the wisdom to know the path You’ve laid before me,
and the trust to follow You, even when the road is uncertain.
Let me be a faithful disciple,
always seeking Your will,
and walking in the light of Your love.
Through the intercession of Mary,
and the saints who have answered Your call,
guide me to the life You have prepared for me.
Amen.

Vocation is not reserved for the holy few—it is God’s invitation to each of us. Whether we are just beginning to seek, or have already embarked on the journey, may we take this time to listen, to follow, and to trust that God’s call will lead us to the fullness of life.


References

  1. Second Vatican Council, Lumen Gentium (Dogmatic Constitution on the Church), 1964, §40.
  2. Saint Teresa of Calcutta (Mother Teresa), various speeches and writings.
  3. USCCB website, Gospel of Matthew 9:9
  4. Saint John Vianney, quoted in Catechism of the Catholic Church, §1589.
  5. Venerable Fr. Patrick Peyton, familyrosary.org.
  6. Saint Edith Stein (St. Teresa Benedicta of the Cross), The Science of the Cross
  7. Saint Francis of Assisi, traditional quote attributed to him in Franciscan sources.